May 10, 2008 at 8:08 pm · Posted On Beyond Me, positive ·
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This morning I came across a clipping from the movie “BOYS” - A Tamil Movie. A statement by the Heroine of the movie is that love will cause all kind of depression, loss of studies and unnecessary pain and loss in life and wants her friends to just maintain their friendship and not to go beyond limits.
It is generic genetic to fall in love when you come across a nice gal/guy. It is true and answer this question to yourself. I always felt my energy levels doubled during such lovely times.
You know “Life is a series of game to Loose?”. At every stage of life you loose something or the other to get a new thing. You loose a lot of small-small battles from you child hood on studies, games, your needs,etc., But Why the loss of love or the path taken to achieve alone is taken so serious?
“Absence is to love as wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small and kindles the great.” is an excellent quote. I would like to add “Love is to Life; It ameliorate the Good and deteriorate the BAD.”
Your personality is already defined by yourself. Love is just another cause that influence your personality more than your friends. With love your personality gets perfect either Bad or Good.
Not only in LOVE, but in all failures, people only see the negative side of life. Bagavat Gita preaches that you should not invite War, but when it is enforced on you, make sure you fight it well. Failures are also battles. It is not necessary to fight with the person but fight with yourself to make yourself better.The failures are also a state and That TOO will PASS.
Don’t ask me where I failed, It is yet another post on Positiveness.
Cheers - Ranjith
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May 3, 2008 at 7:27 pm · Posted On Me MySelf, Beyond Me, Vedas, positive ·
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SELF : What is it ?
Being yourself in all the situation is the definition of SELF. We were like that when we are born. We slowly get changed and changed by the ecosystem happening around us. When we are moving away from ourself, we are losing the way we want to live.
What we do today :
Whenever you see a person speeding his car over the speed of yours, You tend to increase your speed in a desire to beat him. We are getting easily disturbed on roads due to the mis behaviors of the co drivers.
Today our actions are mostly the flow of the reactions for the actions people do around us. If someone is not ready to listen to us, we get tensed unnecessarily.
What is actually happening ?
The above actions are mostly leading to unnecessary raise in pressure in body as well as mind inside us. In the mean time, the person on the other side is gonna be cool and relaxed and not going to mind what you are doing?
So let us be ourself and live for us. Let us do our part in this wold and wait for the results to happen.
Cheers - Ranjith
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April 2, 2008 at 10:35 pm · Posted On Beyond Me, Vedas, positive ·
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Religion is not life and it is just a way of life. Religion is a set of concepts, beliefs and practices that defines your life. The practice of a religion can give you benefits physically and mentally in day to day life. The concepts are defined more scientifically. A belief and fear towards God has been set in the olden days to tame the human.God is not a magician to provide you with everything you wish or punish you for what you did wrong. He is a person who can provide you a small wage for your hard work from being in some other form. So shed off your blind belief that God will do everything for you. If you look deeper into the each and every practice you do towards God, then you can find a reason about your physical or mental ability. When you pray to God, You just boost your self confidence and you tell to you subconscious mind that you will be able to achieve what you are praying for.
I am not an atheist. I have belief in all the concepts like Vaasthu and other puranas explained in Tamil literature. Your thoughts and the subconscious mind are bound to the vibrations around you. Will put on the next post more about this.
Cheers,
Ranjith
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March 14, 2008 at 9:09 am · Posted On Beyond Me, positive, Quotes ·
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This is one of the excellent Quotes which got my attention instantly.
“Never explain yourseof to anyone, Because the person who ‘LIKES’ you doesn’t need it and the person who ‘DISLIKES’ you won’t believe it”
You don’t need to explain your way of life to anyone. Life is lived forward and the explanation has to go backward and collect some reference to explain the happenings. Explanation by meaning is always some justification you do to some one. Make sure you justify your life to yourself and not others.
Life is yours and live it the way you want.
Cheers - Ranjith
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February 29, 2008 at 8:35 am · Posted On Links, positive ·
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“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them - that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” - Lao-Tzu
“Smile, breathe and go slowly.” - Thich Nhat Hanh
“Flow with whatever is happening and let your mind be free. Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing. This is the ultimate.” - Chuang Tzu
Above are the quotes taken from the Zen Habits blog which sets some procedure to live life with the flow. Read the complete post from Zen Habits
Cheers - Ranjith
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