June 19, 2008 at 12:17 am · Posted On Beyond Me, positive ·
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Every living-being in this universe is bound to emotions. Emotions play a major role in binding you to your fellow being. Emotions play a major role in your decision making. I am not going to talk about bigger concept of Emotional Intelligence in this post. Rather this is more towards how your emotions tapper or sharpen your intelligence in making decisions.
A small story :
There is a small fight between your wife and your neighbor. In this fight you know to the best possible limit that your wife is wrong. Ultimately your neighbor is right. If you are going to be judge for this fight and there is no third party witnessing this event. Whom do you support ?
My View :
More than eighty percentage of the men support their lady rather than the neighbor. It makes less sense for him to support the neighbor. I have seen parents fighting for their child with the teachers even though they know their kid is wrong.
What do you say ?
Cheers - Ranjith
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May 29, 2008 at 8:45 am · Posted On Beyond Me, positive ·
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Life is a serious of happenings in and around you. Every time something happens you get an opportunity to learn. Mistakes you commit are one such happening in life. Mistakes/Faillures teaches you more than the success. But you can commit a particular kind of mistake only once. You should not repeat it. You can see in real life, people grow faster when they make different mistakes.
Mistakes are not mistakes, when they happen for the first time. But this doesn’t mean that you need to commit them to grow.
People who learns from others mistakes are Great.
People learning from their mistakes are Good.
People who don’t want to learn from their mistakes are Fools.
Cheers - Ranjith
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May 14, 2008 at 9:42 am · Posted On Beyond Me, positive ·
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All creatures in this world are governed by the external energy / vibration around them. Your positiveness is a factor that contributes to the environments positiveness and vice versa. So more the positive people more the positive energy will be.
The Temple :
Temples [I am not religious here or preaching some religion] irrespective of religion are considered to the place where everyone will maintain silence and have a positive thought / energy propagated out of them. You should always deliver positive words and thoughts wherever you are because you yourself is a factor for increasing the positive energy of the environment you are living in. Please make sure you don’t use harsh or discouraging words to people as that will be taken to the inner mind and will ringer all around.
The sub conscious mind :
The subconsciousness listens to all the happenings around you and take control of your behavior when there you are emotional. The vibrations around you without the knowledge of the conscious mind goes on to the subconscious mind. Your conscious mind cannot predict when the already stored vibrations will be relieved. So it is a mandate for us to take care that the mind is exposed to such environment.
Don’t try to control your flow of thoughts. Life is like a pendulum. How far it goes to the left, it will go to the right. The maximum you bend, the maximum is going to thrust of the flow towards the other end.
Said this, Don’t go in search of a Temple. Make the place around you a positive one. Think and talk positive when you are @ home.
Cheers - Ranjith
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May 10, 2008 at 8:08 pm · Posted On Beyond Me, positive ·
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This morning I came across a clipping from the movie “BOYS” - A Tamil Movie. A statement by the Heroine of the movie is that love will cause all kind of depression, loss of studies and unnecessary pain and loss in life and wants her friends to just maintain their friendship and not to go beyond limits.
It is generic genetic to fall in love when you come across a nice gal/guy. It is true and answer this question to yourself. I always felt my energy levels doubled during such lovely times.
You know “Life is a series of game to Loose?”. At every stage of life you loose something or the other to get a new thing. You loose a lot of small-small battles from you child hood on studies, games, your needs,etc., But Why the loss of love or the path taken to achieve alone is taken so serious?
“Absence is to love as wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small and kindles the great.” is an excellent quote. I would like to add “Love is to Life; It ameliorate the Good and deteriorate the BAD.”
Your personality is already defined by yourself. Love is just another cause that influence your personality more than your friends. With love your personality gets perfect either Bad or Good.
Not only in LOVE, but in all failures, people only see the negative side of life. Bagavat Gita preaches that you should not invite War, but when it is enforced on you, make sure you fight it well. Failures are also battles. It is not necessary to fight with the person but fight with yourself to make yourself better.The failures are also a state and That TOO will PASS.
Don’t ask me where I failed, It is yet another post on Positiveness.
Cheers - Ranjith
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May 3, 2008 at 7:27 pm · Posted On Me MySelf, Beyond Me, Vedas, positive ·
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SELF : What is it ?
Being yourself in all the situation is the definition of SELF. We were like that when we are born. We slowly get changed and changed by the ecosystem happening around us. When we are moving away from ourself, we are losing the way we want to live.
What we do today :
Whenever you see a person speeding his car over the speed of yours, You tend to increase your speed in a desire to beat him. We are getting easily disturbed on roads due to the mis behaviors of the co drivers.
Today our actions are mostly the flow of the reactions for the actions people do around us. If someone is not ready to listen to us, we get tensed unnecessarily.
What is actually happening ?
The above actions are mostly leading to unnecessary raise in pressure in body as well as mind inside us. In the mean time, the person on the other side is gonna be cool and relaxed and not going to mind what you are doing?
So let us be ourself and live for us. Let us do our part in this wold and wait for the results to happen.
Cheers - Ranjith
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