Ranjith’s Castle

“One minute manager” is one of the book which I read a couple of years back. Some points pulled out of my old mail archive.

Behavior is one of the key qualities of a person. Behavior should not change over time. People often call they are bound by their behavior, but we actually define it. Make sure you define it right for you.

In personal as well as professional life we should learn to appreciate people’s achievement. We always tend to look for mistakes rather than good things. Appreciations will help people grow to their fullest potential.

I have seen most people even some times myself live for some one around them.  You should know to live for you. People who feel good about them will live a happy life and do things to their potential.

Cheers - Ranjith

Every living-being in this universe is bound to emotions. Emotions play a major role in binding you to your fellow being. Emotions play a major role in your decision making. I am not going to talk about bigger concept of Emotional Intelligence in this post. Rather this is more towards how your emotions tapper or sharpen your intelligence in making decisions.

A small story :

There is a small fight between your wife and your neighbor. In this fight you know to the best possible limit that your wife is wrong. Ultimately your neighbor is right. If you are going to be judge for this fight and there is no third party witnessing this event. Whom do you support ?

My View :

More than eighty percentage of the men support their lady rather than the neighbor. It makes less sense for him to support the neighbor. I have seen parents fighting for their child with the teachers even though they know their kid is wrong.

What do you say ?

Cheers - Ranjith

Life is a serious of happenings in and around you. Every time something happens you get an opportunity to learn. Mistakes you commit are one such happening in life. Mistakes/Faillures teaches you more than the success. But you can commit a particular kind of mistake only once. You should not repeat it. You can see in real life, people grow faster when they make different mistakes.

Mistakes are not mistakes, when they happen for the first time. But this doesn’t mean that you need to commit them to grow.

People who learns from others mistakes are Great.
People learning from their mistakes are Good.
People who don’t want to learn from their mistakes are Fools.

Cheers - Ranjith

All creatures in this world are governed by the external energy / vibration around them. Your positiveness is a factor that contributes to the environments positiveness and vice versa. So more the positive people more the positive energy will be.

The Temple :

Temples [I am not religious here or preaching some religion] irrespective of religion are considered to the place where everyone will maintain silence and have a positive thought / energy propagated out of them. You should always deliver positive words and thoughts wherever you are because you yourself is a factor for increasing the positive energy of the environment you are living in. Please make sure you don’t use harsh or discouraging words to people as that will be taken to the inner mind and will ringer all around.

The sub conscious mind :

The subconsciousness listens to all the happenings around you and take control of your behavior when there you are emotional. The vibrations around you without the knowledge of the conscious mind goes on to the subconscious mind. Your conscious mind cannot predict when the already stored vibrations will be relieved. So it is a mandate for us to take care that the mind is exposed to such environment.

Don’t try to control your flow of thoughts. Life is like a pendulum. How far it goes to the left, it will go to the right. The maximum you bend, the maximum is going to thrust of the flow towards the other end.

Said this, Don’t go in search of a Temple. Make the place around you a positive one. Think and talk positive when you are @ home.

Cheers - Ranjith