Ranjith’s Castle

Every living-being in this universe is bound to emotions. Emotions play a major role in binding you to your fellow being. Emotions play a major role in your decision making. I am not going to talk about bigger concept of Emotional Intelligence in this post. Rather this is more towards how your emotions tapper or sharpen your intelligence in making decisions.

A small story :

There is a small fight between your wife and your neighbor. In this fight you know to the best possible limit that your wife is wrong. Ultimately your neighbor is right. If you are going to be judge for this fight and there is no third party witnessing this event. Whom do you support ?

My View :

More than eighty percentage of the men support their lady rather than the neighbor. It makes less sense for him to support the neighbor. I have seen parents fighting for their child with the teachers even though they know their kid is wrong.

What do you say ?

Cheers - Ranjith

I was out to my native and was on a long weekend!! My native being on the Southern most part of India is currently on the days of the South West monsoon with the Courtallam Season ON.  I was able to find the same amount of venom from the sun, but the winds blowing with a little of humidity made me feel much relaxed and cool. Being in the city, We really miss a lot of good things found around the country.

• A relaxed life.
• Good Air and water.
• Great winds that consoles your body and mind.
• Green Trees where you love to rest by.

I feel little nostalgic and want to live in such a peace rather than living in the hot polluted city.

The main constraint of moving to such place being in the software industry is the necessity of Internet to make your living. Tele-com Vendors are feeling the necessity to taking broadband to these places.  I feel that the days are not too long for us to migrate to such place. Waiting for the opportunity.

Cheers - Ranjith

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Advices are given and expected at different stage of life starting from childhood. Most advice given are forced. By forced, I mean the advice is given to reverse the course of receivers action. The forced advice should not be taken. But they are mostly taken due to non exposure to the pros and cons of the advice given. If taken the advice can lead to bad results.

The first piece of forced advice is given from the parents to the children. How many of the parents will allow their children to play on the field. I have seen people dumping with a lot of books around the small kid to learn at the age it needs to play. I was watching “Chutti TV”, the channel for kids in Tamil. It  has programs that increases the interaction of the child and further teaches the kid to identify a lot of things. How many of you allow the child to watch that?

Take an example of parents who are both Doctors. They want their child to be Doctor, mainly the males, so that he can become the next Doctor to continue the hospital, they built yesterday. They don’t listen to what he is doing from childhood. They will start enforcing it once he grows a minimal level of understanding. Even if he is not willing to do the course they will get it out making him to learn the course in a private college or so. There are guys who have discontinued their course due to non interest. The same will apply to civil Engineers having own construction.

Advice should never be forced. It will always create disinterest in the advice forced.

Flow advice is the one given once the child selects the field. The right advice for the current career should be given. Exposing and directing him to do some of the higher studies once he selects his field is the best kind of flow advice people can give. Once again it should not be forced. Show him the options, let him select.

People won’t do this perfectly due to two reasons,

• their son has taken a course they don’t line.
• the parent’s don’t have much exposure to the course he has taken.

The second reason can be forgiven. But still the parents should make way such that the guy gets are good adviser for him.

There are people who are not able to understand them self for whom we can forced advice. Even at this stage the advice should be in sync with the person but against his misunderstanding.

cheers - Ranjith

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Last week we were out to one of my friends wedding @ Kumbakonam. Kumbakonam is a place that is surrounded by a lot of temples. Most temples were built during the period of cholas. Kumbakonam - Tanjore belt is famous for the fertility of the lands watered by the Great Kaveri river. During the month of January, I visited the famous Tanjai Periya Koil. The temple was built by the Great Raja Raja Cholan during 10th Century. This time we went to three temples - Pateeswaram , Darasuram , and GangaiKonda Cholapuram. Each temple has its own speciality. Darasuram is the temple dates back to the 12th Century and Gangai Konda chola puram dates back to 11th Century.

Cheers - Ranjith

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