Ranjith’s Castle

I put the title of this post on Twitter a day before. When I was a child, there is no one to question me why I did this or that. Even If some one asks me those questions, I may not have taken it so serious or I don’t know even I should take some things seriously. As I grow up, I felt that I was responsible for more things happening around me and I have to respond to them in the best possible way, so that no one else is hurt or gets a bad face from me. You start living more for others than yours.

I was reading a book that has a collection of speeches from Sri Sri RaviShankar. He states, “A person doing a mistake without knowing he is doing a mistake is a gifted one.”  It does not mean that you can do any mistake. You will start realizing more of your mistakes as you get mature.  So automatically you will be adjusting yourself to the situation and society.

There are three states of life :

1. You don’t think, You just act.
2. You think and analyze a lot.
3. You know everything.

The first and third set of people live  a very happy life. But the percentage of people living in this zone is very less. The second state people are a lot here and try to confuse around things a lot. They cannot come to a conclusion without a great fight within. People move on from the first state to the second state fast and quick. But not all move to the third state in life.

I know people who used to analyze on how others react and what others think about him and how your friend’s personality is and what, how, when, etc of the friends/people they move with. I really thank GOD for not giving me such a good quality. Becase they loose a lot of energy, time and more on this analysis and get depressed due to others behavior. This is also a kind of maturity that happens over a period of time.

As far my experience, I believe “Maturity is a big problem !!! “. Try jumping to the next state.

Cheers - Ranjith