Life + [ Failure] Love = Total Loss… Is it ?
This morning I came across a clipping from the movie “BOYS” - A Tamil Movie. A statement by the Heroine of the movie is that love will cause all kind of depression, loss of studies and unnecessary pain and loss in life and wants her friends to just maintain their friendship and not to go beyond limits.
It is generic genetic to fall in love when you come across a nice gal/guy. It is true and answer this question to yourself. I always felt my energy levels doubled during such lovely times.
You know “Life is a series of game to Loose?”. At every stage of life you loose something or the other to get a new thing. You loose a lot of small-small battles from you child hood on studies, games, your needs,etc., But Why the loss of love or the path taken to achieve alone is taken so serious?
“Absence is to love as wind is to fire; It extinguishes the small and kindles the great.” is an excellent quote. I would like to add “Love is to Life; It ameliorate the Good and deteriorate the BAD.”
Your personality is already defined by yourself. Love is just another cause that influence your personality more than your friends. With love your personality gets perfect either Bad or Good.
Not only in LOVE, but in all failures, people only see the negative side of life. Bagavat Gita preaches that you should not invite War, but when it is enforced on you, make sure you fight it well. Failures are also battles. It is not necessary to fight with the person but fight with yourself to make yourself better.The failures are also a state and That TOO will PASS.
Don’t ask me where I failed, It is yet another post on Positiveness.
Cheers - Ranjith
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