This blog is linked from Zen Habits on Do’s and Don’ts of Relationship. I found this article interesting as most of the Don’ts are the once most people do.
Do’s :
Don’ts:
Read the complete article
cheers - Ranjith
Being yourself in all the situation is the definition of SELF. We were like that when we are born. We slowly get changed and changed by the ecosystem happening around us. When we are moving away from ourself, we are losing the way we want to live.
What we do today :
Whenever you see a person speeding his car over the speed of yours, You tend to increase your speed in a desire to beat him. We are getting easily disturbed on roads due to the mis behaviors of the co drivers.
Today our actions are mostly the flow of the reactions for the actions people do around us. If someone is not ready to listen to us, we get tensed unnecessarily.
What is actually happening ?
The above actions are mostly leading to unnecessary raise in pressure in body as well as mind inside us. In the mean time, the person on the other side is gonna be cool and relaxed and not going to mind what you are doing?
So let us be ourself and live for us. Let us do our part in this wold and wait for the results to happen.
Cheers - Ranjith
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